As with other advice on The Blue Ticks, this is something I have learnt the hard way.
Please remember my mantra: Less Is More!
Finding the balance between ‘ice-cold’ and ‘as keen as mustard’ is a talent your need to work on. You’re so desperate to hear from the person you’re chatting to. You just want to hear that ‘ding’ and see their name pop up and that pang comes out to play.
The reality is this:You will never need to keep your cool if there is the right vibe between you. They should want to pick up the phone to see how you’re doing.